Mind Musings

Integrating Spirituality & Darkness

Having the spiritual world completely separate from our physical existence makes no sense at all. We have the physical, the emotional and the mental components, and then it’s like we put the spiritual way up there and it makes absolutely no sense! Spirituality should be an enhancement of the physical world, not a detractor. We […]

Relationships

Healthy Relating Means RESPECT

It takes the height of arrogance and frankly, a big lack of common sense for one human being to say, it really is an excellent idea for me to tell someone else how they’re supposed to be or to live their own life. That’s just not the way healthy relating is designed to be. Healthy relating is about giving each

Mind Musings

Cure Procrastination or How To Move Forward In Life

Do you ever procrastinate eating ice cream, watching TV, playing video games, dancing, or doing anything that you love? On the other hand, do you ever procrastinate doing your taxes, doing your homework, working on a project for the job, washing the dishes, or cleaning your room? So what is procrastinating? Avoiding what you don’t

Mind Musings

The Shadow Self

“Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual’s conscious life, the blacker and denser it is.” – Carl Jung – Psychology and Religion. We all have a shadow, there is no way to avoid it. As we go through life, experiences start to shape who we are. I mean all

Mind Musings

Inner Work

Every person who starts inner work will have a different experience. Inner work is extremely personal in that sense. What I am proposing through my work with people is my own way that I have unlocked some productive healing techniques, but each person is going to follow their own path that is being laid before

Mind Musings

Meditation – How To and Why

Meditation is the foundation of mental, emotional and ultimately physical health. This is why this post is going to be a long one and, even being as long as it is, it’s only dipping into the depths of this practice and of its importance on the path of becoming conscious and fulfilled. This post may

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The Cobra Effect – A Sneaky Way to Self-sabotage

I talk with a lot of people who really want to make inner-work part of their day-to-day life, who want to figure themselves out and to start living a life that is more genuine, more authentic, more inspired and more joyous. Although well-intended and, at many levels sincere about their search, I have noticed, over

Mind Musings

Process Addictions

When we’re talking about mental health disorders, it’s not unusual that we run into Substance Use Disorders and, even if we don’t fully understand how these work, we generally understand their consequences. An “addict” is usually seen as someone who starts using substances and, at some point, because of some changes to brain chemistry and

Mind Musings

Core Beliefs

Please take a moment (or more) to reflect upon the following affirmations you might hold as your core beliefs. Please consider them as a continuum over your entire life, not just in the moment. Look for ways in which holding these beliefs serve you. I know this might sound uncomfortable, but just do an exercise

Relationships

Covert Gaslighting

Simply put, gaslighting is when another person fucks with your reality – I have chosen this very colourful language because it really captures best the way in which someone will deny that your experience of what you observe is not what you observe, that what you are feeling or believing according to your inner perception,